Dating rejection message
You can probably finesse the wording a little bit: It’s been really great getting to know you, but I have to tell you the truth: I started to see a guy and things are getting a little more serious.
So I’m going to hide my profile on for now and see where things go.
First, is there an acceptable way to say, “My dance card is pretty full right now, but I’ll get back to you in a few weeks if none of those dates go further?
” I can’t think of a good way to phrase this that doesn’t sound like the guy is “second choice” or a backup option – and usually he is a perfectly interesting and attractive person, not a second choice at all, but I don’t want to be in the situation of having three different dates every week and having to draw up a spreadsheet to keep track of them all!
I get a fair number of interesting replies and first messages and there are two things I’m struggling with.
You’re a great guy and I’m glad I had the chance to get to know you. You don’t have to do anything, except give him a slightly diluted version of the truth, so you don’t hurt his feelings when you reject him.
I’m sure you’re going to make some girl really happy one day. Sure, he can press you on WHY you didn’t feel it for him.
First, you can curb the flow of incoming responses by either deleting your photos or hiding your profile.
That way, you can deal with only the existing guys in a timely and fair manner.